wedding troubles

dis isnt jus all ab myself n my encounters but is wat i see fr others oso..

traditional chinese wedding will start off w d customary ceremony where groom come to pick d bride & d bride's jie mei will make it difficult for d groom n tt is wat we called s gate crashing. den d groom & bride will go to their home for tea ceremony before gg back to bride's side for tea beremony or even for outdoor shoot b4 returning. simply s it may sound but if got mamy relatives
den even if w/o outdoor shoot, may oso b v rush.

other prob can oso surface at d hotel or restaurant. like pen no ink, media cant play, laptop cant  connect to projector, mic quality poor, things not set, things forget bring. certain things r unavoidable, certain things r avoidable. yet thr still can have many other prob. like uncoorporative guests. guest who 自作主张, 自已为是 & assume can bring any no of ppl they wan despite ppl tekling them cant. but at least these r minority.

wedding is a once in a lifetime event. everybody w well state of mind will want their weddinv to b perfect. to b how they wish it would b. would participate n find watevet thry can. would find ideas.would b worry if anythibg would go wrong. yet today, now, i m at a most disorganise dinner at a really bad location or rather in a building tt ihas really bad structure design w confusing signs. d bride is fr laos so if she didnt care is undrrstandable cos she dk. but d groom, a fellow singaporean & he been to many dinner & b brothers for few times, yet he didnt care & leave all to hus coordinator n 4 bros to manage a rented ballroom arranged w 50 tables. emcees only come at 7pm n attempted rehearsal makin ppl blur b4 they stopped. d groom still wanna think of more ideas like popper when his bros r all shag out & tired.w last min role changes & additional of numerous tasks. w last min searching of all songs for march in, montages, etc. & his cocktail montage seems to b jus open d slideshow fr his laptop photo gallery w scenaries, other ppl, w table plan comin in when guest comin, w last min chsnges n shifting ppl fr 1 table to another, w certain tables where ppl r unknown where to sit & too msny to b named.

y i say d buildin is bad. lvl 1 no toilet. d toilet is deep inside d ballroom so w/o emtering d ballroom, there is no way to access d toilet. d card stated lvl 2 but they don wan ppl take lift up cos no space for recept. but i see ppl in wheelchair, w walkin sticks. d signage put is lvl 1 but there is only 1 restaurant thr. n there is another weddin stated at lvl 2. i came early to pass dear his shirt. i noe lvl 2 but blur when see lvl 1. i climb stairs up to see another function so i climb fown. not onlt i blur. ppl come take lift but saw lvl 1 sign n they wanna press lvl 1 in d lift. lift door openat lvl 2 they oso blur. ppl come uncertain of d chinese name n ask d waitress for d restaurant n they oso confuse n almost bring to wrong place. ppl oso commemt tt d toilet is v far. there is no seats at lvl 1 for ppl who came early. only got seats outside restaurant for restaurant.

d groom himself is like umsure of wat he wants n unsure of everything. florist close at 9 yet he wan to collect flowers aft. yet he wan bring his in laws to tour ard. book mpv oso book late. no car to chauffeur ppl ard fr laos like his in laws n so coordinator need to help him find driver but can last min chsnge plan. end up we only reach home at almost 11 ytd to iron dear clothes. for all these effort. is only worth angbao of 20+. haiz. y can there b such ppl ard???

a sad news

dis mornin, once i log-in my FB & looked at my neighbourhood gp, saw a really shockin & sad news. a lady seemed to ve jumped down w her few mth old baby & both were dead aft.

aft followin d posts & their threads, found they jumped fr my blk. & those who can see clearly were fr my units at diff lvl. OMG!!! it's still unclear why this happened but they anticipated tt they fall fr a lvl above me but may not b fr d unit above. not sure if 1 of d residences anot. but still 1 lvl up is still s scary sia. so near.

anw, someone posted d wanbao's 1st pg. d baby is a gal & jus 6 mth old only. somemore, d lady were only married since mar last yr. so newly wed & d baby is so innocent. ppl oso say based on d paper, think they werent a residence & they fall fr d highest lvl (25). well, guess cos my blk is d tallest amg d other blk fr d same proj.

nw is still lunar 7th mth & dis kinda things happen. d last i heard of such news was fr d place i am stayin at nw. i wasn't sure if i should really b tt glad tt i wasn't thr seein what happened for both time. but fallin fr such height, even if i m thr, even if i can try renderin 1st aid, think oso hard. nw can only pray & chant for them.

BTOs near parents

talkin ab far fr my parents, jus saw tt recent BTOs thr r near my parents one & comin sept will b even closer to them than d recent past BTOs. haiz. if not cos jus got d hse recently & within 5 yrs cant sell, if not i might b tempted to apply for the comin BTOs.

cos if so, den i no need to change job eventually, & if really in future, got kids, can let my mum to help supervise even if got maid or so. & at least i still can meet my friend for supper & walk home even aft mid-night movie or to go for swim tgt. i guess i gonna miss these gd old days cos less than 100 days, gonna b far away le.

but i got an idea, if possible, if dear gg meet his buddy for chat & drink at night, den i take his car to meet my friend & den go pick him aft tt to go home lor. but hope really got d chance. cos sayin easier than doin. haiz.

Seletar Mall

slowly fallin in love w my new place but it's still too far fr work & fr parents. but d consolation is tt thr will b a mall near me. less than 400 m away? & it'd been cfm tt thr will ve cinema too.

been following d facebook gp of my estate & always don dare believe when they say d triangular plot of land in front of a lrt stn gonna ve a mall cos tt land don look big. even when d chinese yao cai dian ppl oso say thr will b a mall i still don dare believe cos scare of disappointment. even when the wooden barrier ard tt land got the mall's name den i believe thr will b a mall but still i wanna see fr my own eyes & so i did last mon.

when ppl fr fb anticipate if thr will b cinema, i still don believe. even till someone said cfm got cinema jus duno which co cos fr inside story of his co yet i still don believe. even when ppl say cos got pic of a couple eatin popcorn & i oso see fr my v own eye on mon i still don dare to put too high hope cos tt land really don look big for cinema.

but today, saw link tt tt fb gp put & now i guess i believe. since it's in d news though online, so it cant b fake right? hehe.

http://business.asiaone.com/Business/News/Story/A1Story20120821-366666.html

New mall at Sengkang named 'The Seletar Mall'

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The four-storey shopping mall is designed to include a gross floor area of 284,000 sq ft which includes two basement levels and a Cineplex.

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http://www.businesstimes.com.sg/premium/companies/others/seletar-mall-be-completed-end-2014-20120822

Seletar Mall to be completed end-2014

http://sbr.com.sg/retail/in-focus/sphs-seletar-mall-be-completed-end-2014

SPH's Seletar Mall to be completed by end-2014

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These include a Cineplex on the 4th storey, a food court on the 3rd level, anchor retail shops at the 1st, 2nd and 3rd storey, and a good-sized supermarket at Basement 2.

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other than d distance to work & fr my parents' place & only 1 feeder service to khatib/yishun mrt, i still quite like d location provided drivin la. cos gg town, etc is actually quite near. but i guess i wont drive. cos no $ = no car. if sg don rain, mayb i might consider learnin motor bike cos cheaper than car though more dangerous. at least distance to work wont b any issue anymore.

小孩的天真

sometimes i really envy kids. they r so pure & innocent though they can b really mischievious. sum had a family gathering at uncle's place & saw d youngest 2 boys playing hide & seek. the youngest took time to find d elder one & when it is his turn to hide, he will repeat where the elder hide. the cycle repeats itself till all of us were laughing but still he don noe wat happen & cont d whole process. however s n adult, we arent suppose to make such silly mistake or rather we try v hard not to so tt we wont b laugh by others. tt's y i hate being grown up but we had to face it. time wont wait for us.

hope i wont b bias

i really hope aft all these incidents, i can still b s neutral s possible to all pr esp fr tt origin. it's not gonna b easy but i'll try my v best. cos ultimately, we r all humans. pls proof me so cos i really don wish to become bias esp if there r only some black sheeps.

Liar Liar

It takes great skill to b a liar tt can converse w a wonderful story 'impromptu' or do they rehearse & think of all possible question or wat will follow aft each sentences?

ytd, i got to noe of a colleague tt either she is lying to me or she is lying to another. but i guess most likely to me esp since aft previous incident tt she think i don wanna help her, she seldom chat w me or rather, she wont come & act pitiful w me.

ya. she is d one tt rather serve net, online shoppin, den end up complain boss push her for her thesis & so she gotta do till 4 or 5 am & comin in showin she worked hard & wanted us to pity her. & she is d one who wants ppl to repeat her experiment & put aside ppl's own experiment & yet when ppl don wan or wanna push aside hers, she would get offended & think ppl don wanna help. & she is d one who isn't happy when her original country is at lugi in d olympic while she is a sg pr. well, she is a graduatin phd & is currently converted recently as staff while waiting to graduate.

so, wat happen was last week, thr is a PH on thurs. on fri, i was told by another colleague, d one whom she was closed w tt she wont b comin in cos she was gg to bali for diving. & when she went to boss to 'apply leave', boss did ask if she got leave. s a staff, i noe tt leave is earned slowly. tt's y i've been tryin so hard to save leaves now. yet she give reason tt she is entitled to d leaves cos she like did more durin d thesis, btw d conversion fr student to staff. & eventually, think boss oso give up & said he pretend he nvr hear anything. tt means, any pro, she will have to ans by herself. i really feel she is really bold. like tt oso can? & she can go psycho d other colleague who jus become student to submit leave application form for boss signature & then don bring downstairs for processing, tt way, d leave will always b thr. @@ no wonder she can like go for so many holi.

anw, d thing is tt she didn't noe i alrdy noe she went for divin ba. so ytd, she came to 'ask' me if her eyes look diff. & den said is cos of mosquito bite den progress to say her husband kena many & allergic reaction till lymph node all swells. said her husband kena bite on a night & so i ask if got see doc. she carry on to say tt d followin mornin when her husband go for shower & found thigh area oso got swell on lymph nodes area & so they got scare & went to hospital. aft take med, swell reduce but her husband v tired w slight fever & so she keep takin care of him & thus didn't come back to work on fri & her husband keep feelin tired & slept for d next 2 days.

she even said she worried if it's dengue so i told her d symptom since my dad & i kena b4. & told her tt mayb she can try get mosquito patch, or those anti-mosquito gaghet & she said mayb but suspect only like take a mth of anxiousness den aft tt wont cont'd. & tt is v rare to get biten by such poisonous mosquito for such allergy in sg. guess, is only a really rare chance.

deep in my heart i wonder, u sure is in sg? tot u go divin? but since she nvr tell me, i assume i don know. so i nvr questioned her. but i did cfm w d other colleague when she go but w/o cfm i alrdy noe sure is tt weekend cos b4 tt she was ard. true enough, it's tt weekend. & she even viber tt colleague to give pitiful smiley face tt she miss her flight & need stay at airport 1 night to catch d next available flight. & tt was wed night tt suppose to be her original flight. so if she tell me, her husband kena bitten d night b4 fri, tt means on thurs, she is suppose to b in sg & on fri at a local hospital. yet, she was catching a mornin flight to bali on thurs mornin. WOW. POWER SIA. so which is correct?

I jus feel tt she is a v li hai ppl cos watever i can ask to carry on d conversation, she can con't her story w/o any loophole. like everything is pre-rehearse. guess, i need to beware of this person. if not, die oso duno how i die.