Ideal dream home

I bet in everybody's mind there is an idea of an ideal dream home & there is no standard that will fit each & every one's point of view cos everybody's upbringing & what they gone thru are diff.

Now tt I got my own place, due to d fact tt I need to work, etc, I prefer my place to b neat & easy to maintain & so hopefully minimal things if possible & minimal or no display especially those that will trap dust.

True tt false ceiling with light coming fr d edge etc may look nice but it will trap dust. Thus we go for simple lightings, full height shoe racks etc so as to have lesser place trapping dust.

Talking about ease of maintenance & wanting minimal things, I oso jus hope to have only the essential & I don mind paying for whatever I need & equipping with whatever suit my taste. Even to d extend that I need to survive on bread & cup noodle fr now till payday cos I only left w like $100 to use till I get my pay. At least at d end of d day, I'm d one staying at my place & looking at it daily & I'm happy & relax.

However reality isn't so simple. Parents & in laws are also excited & getting things for us. Be it what we need it not & what is suitable or not. Cos they oso have their own idea of an ideal dream home. I bet dealing w own parents' purchase might b more acceptable than in laws cos ultimately we grow up w own parents & so d culture b more acceptable ba.

But den like tt oso got another prob. If u r a female, den d male side may think that they r d guy's side so they should b d one who prep or buy most or all d things. Whatever it is, whoever it is, will be caught in between. Between either parents & even own ideal home ideas. It's jus so torturing.

Use either parents' purchase will hurt another. & still have throw away own ideal ideas esp if idea clash. But how to stop all of them?

Seriously I don mind eating non-nutritious meal temporary so I can wat I really wan & need. & at least I oso no need to get caught in btw everybody $ myself. ESP when it's really almost every gals' dream to build their own ideal home. A happy, relaxing & comfortable place to live in for the rest of our lives.