if thr is another world, can i go over nw? i'm not a wonder woman leh. can don everything oso 'ah shan' this 'ah shan' tt???
i noe my godma v pitiful. no kids n jus divorce fr an old yet a playboy husband. but she got 8 siblings oso leh. sun, all went down makin me felt tt they all r so closely knitted. so gd.
den...
mum pek chek ytd say san yi kept callin to ask but nvr go down visit. initially, i still feel tt mayb she couldn't go over but den nw, i oso pek chek w my xiao yi. xiao yi is d youngest of d siblings. d one with d highest edu w d help of d siblings. d one who studied sci oso. so other than me who noe bout sci n bio, she is actually d best person to speak to le.
my godma who is my er yi ma had been my godma since i was v v v small. n since everybody else is workin, i do a flavor to b d one to try to talk w d doc to understand more bout her condition rather tahn doc tellin my mum who don understand n will exaggerate d whole story. of course to visit my godma at same time la.
d thing tt made me super duper pissed off today is tt, actually ytd mornin when i went nuh 1st to udnerstand more n found out tt godma need check blood vessel bloakage 1st b4 can proceed on for either pace maker or defibrillator, i inform my xiao yi. i'm alway d one who inform her n she nvr even bother to ask like my san yi. she thank me n say tt wed n thurs she not workin so she can go down except tt wed she can only go down aft her aircon servicin appt. fine... i told her i rush back sch aft tt. den oso inform her tt i rushin back to nuh to sign consent for d defibrillator. she thank me again n tt she will go over. but she only stay a while. initially, tot can take her car back but den luckily dear came over aft work cos xiao yi say she got program n left w her friend. & den she today toatlly no news.
at 3+ pm today, mum called. say godma can change bed. ask if i'll go over w dear so tt he can take godma's gift n drive back. at 1st, i did tot tt mayb i can get a break today w/o d need to rush over since my da yi n er jiu will sure b thr. i can go over but wat i don like is tt mum was too reliant on me n on d fact tt dear got car. yes, dear got car but like dad, xiao yi n my san yi zhang, all also workin n they oso got car. y mum only think of dear jus cos dad say he busy dis few days? all can b busy w work n she didn't want to look for them n so she ask dear when he oso not sure wwhen can go back home? pls la. xiao yi's work is more fixed hr than dear lor. so told mum off. don care if she angry. told her d fact tt dear is worrkin so she oso cannot alway think tt he got car. mum defend herself n say tt if dear come, she wont ve to take cab. she can take mrt. take cab take cab la. she will take n share cab w my er jiu mu wor. so? it'll b cheaper wor. den she say till if don take, den my godma tml might discharge n oso will need to take things n oso to hold my godma. say like so chiam. so i end up rush cab over. but even if i go, n if dear oso busy, den i oso gotta take cab ma. so wat's d diff of her takin cab back?
somemore, actually, while in cab, realized tt cab fare might more or less b d same s d amt taken to drive thr n park thr for 2-3 hr. cos d parkin itself can easily b like 5+, 6+... if u take a single trip of cab, guess it's mroe or less d same wat. so don think tt got car is cheaper. so actually, take d trouble to take cab can actually save trouble of more ppl wor.
in cab, i rmrb my xiao yi, she not workin ma, so i tot can asked her go take things back. end up, xiao yi said she bringing dog to d vet. cannot go over. -.-" it's her sis in d hospital leh. hw can she not ask? she not worrkin n totally nvr come down when she got car oso leh. so y i bother to inform her? she is d one who will understand d whole situation than everybody else n yet did she bother? her dog is much mroe impt than her sis. it made me boil. i wanna scream. i wanna cry. cos everything always fall on me. i do everybody a flavor to find out more n do her d flavor to inform her. but when she is supposely free, did she bother to help me back when she alrdy noe ytd i rush fr hospital to sch n den back to hospital. can she be more automatic?
i got piss off oso when i reach, saw tt my godma's side tabel was empty. all d gifts were gone. my da yi puzzlely ask me y i rush over. i told her tt mum called n ask me bring things back. n called her many times to cfm aft more than 30 min but failed so i rushed over. my da yi said tt actualy min aft mum called me, actually, my da yi had already asked her son to drive things back le. n my mum left min later. it's only a while aft i reach tt mum said tell me not to rush over. i really wanna scream at her. i shot back n say 'u too late, i alrdy rush cab over. i alrdy reach. u should v tell me earlier'.
i'm oso pek chek though i noe eventually b me who b cleanin my godma's wound n change her dressing cos hw my grandma will do but i tot tt mayb my san jiu mu (fr vietnam) might help cos they stay under 1 roof. it's still fine tt i ve to do it but i don like to b volunteered by ppl. yet my mum volunteered me. fine. i still can tolerate but i don like it when it had to b fixed timing daily n w/o consulting me, jus fixed at evening for me. hw she sure it's such a gd time for me? can she ve d courtesy to call me n cfm d time?
last sun was mother's day n cos of this, nvr go dine w dear's mom so told him to tell his mom tt mayb dis sat or so den treat her. yet if fixed at evening, does tt mean tt i gotta forgot d dinner? i alrdy disappoint dear's nanny. i'm sure they understand but it made me feel bad. so i decided to fix at 9+ pm to change d dressing. late but den wat else can i do? tt's d best timing whr i can accomodate to everybody.
actually, mum almost everyday except sun nvr go over to my cousins' place which is jus next block fr my godma n grandma. so i ask y don she do it, den she can do in morning. she say her hand ltr tremble. y she always so scare of thsi & tt. even da yi said tt if not cos stay quite a distance away, if not she will change for my godma. even my er jiu suggest changed in daytime n mayb he ask his wife go help so don ve to all rely on me. they oso see tt i always rush over n by cab lor. they oso noe it's late n wodner hw i go back today cos dear end up late oso.
ytd dear didn't quite ve lunch n worked till 6.30 like tt n rush over n his tummy weird weird le. today, he also almost couldn't go over cos got urgent matter to deal w towards d end of d day n it was only settle or actually not (i oso not sure) but he only started to come over at ard 7.35 pm n so we all only eat at ard 8+pm b4 he drive my da yi, er jiu n me back.
awhile ago, dear called, say he felt feverish. n tml he workin 24 hr n had a presentation. n he die die ve to go n die die must finish presentation b4 can c doc n d earliest possible time b 2 pm den can c doc. gosh... hope it's jus cos not enough slp n body heaty n he b ok after d slp. if not, i can really go crazy. cos if he sick, yet cannot c doc n rest, den he'll b more tired n get more serious. den wat shall i do? n he always in front of other ppl will sure say, 'nvm', 'it's ok', 'no prob', so tt's y i oso not happy tt mum oso started to take advantage of him le. she took advantage of me, pushin me ard, volunteer me is alrdy gg beyond my limit le leh. nw still wan take advantage cos he got car. see la, nw he oso fallin sick.
mum oso fri should go check on her liver aft she had found her liver profile not tt gd aft her medical checkup tt day. i'm gettin crazy...
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