Due to the TV cabinet in the living room, quite a lot of other things had to be shifted out and now due to lack of space, my cousin had to sleep in the master bedroom. He is sleeping in the 'cradle' as only the living room and the master bedroom got the hook.
Since my cousin started sleeping in the master bedroom, when the maid got nothing to do (not our maid so we can't order her to do anything, she got to do at her own accord or my aunt tell her to do), she would lie on the cushions that was below my cousin in case he fall out. She would sleep there.
Previously, when she had nothing to do, she would look at cookbooks and even copied down some recipes. But recently, she would go and take a nap. Take a nap in the MASTER BEDROOM. And because of that, my mum could not take her nap or rest in her own bedroom. Who wants to be there with this maid?
I told my mum before that she could wake the maid up and said that she need to take her stuffs from the cabinet, etc which the maid was blocking. Not sure if my mum tried but I don't think so. Anyway, it sound so crazy that my mum had to use excuse to get the maid out of the room. Think the maid would just give excuse that she had to take care of my cousin who is in the master bedroom so she can't go out, blah blah blah... She always had excuses. Never fail to.
Last Friday, my mum got really mad. That day, she went market to get some stuffs. When she came back, my cousin was already asleep. The maid was in my mum's room again. This time, she wasn't asleep. She was just lazing there. When my mum got home, she still don't move an inch. When my mum got into the room, she still don't move at all. When my mum put down her bag, again, the maid still never move and continue lazing there as if she was the master of the house (of the room) while my mum was the maid trying to move around. Who won't be angry?
My mum went to keep the dried clothes and the maid also never move at all. When my mum bring the clothes into the room, she also never move. Can you imagine that? My mum got really fed up so she dumped the clothes on the bed. Only then, the maid somehow detect that it's not right so she sat up and quickly started folding the clothes. When the maid happened to went out, my mum quickly dump some letters on the floor to pack so that there is no space for the maid to go in.
At that time, I went to do some gardening. And the maid started to busybody again. She came out seeing what I do. Said she will shift this and that when I did not say I want to shift, when I haven't decided what to shift and where to shift. (-.-)''' I had to constantly tell her not to do anything spoiling my mood.
After the incident that she lazed in my mum's room, my mum could no longer stand it. She had been constantly worried that things like valuables will go missing. My mum told my aunt and told her that my dad had also said that if she would be accounted for anything missing.
My aunt scolded her and warned her and apparently, she was not bothered at all or she simply just forget over the weekend.
Yesterday, my mum went market again as she needs to help her sister buy some medication from the clinic. The maid bring my cousin to sleep. And when my cousin was already asleep, there was a big wind and something crashed down. We thought it was from the kitchen and so both of us went to check out so she was already out of the master bedroom. Since my cousin was already asleep, she could have stayed in the living room but she continued walking into the bedroom and sat there. I was mad when I see that. As I need to get something from my bedroom (I was in the study room), when I went in (which is a door away from the master bedroom), I saw that she was cutting her toenails. I almost faint when I see that.
She is the maid.
She take her nap in the master bedroom while my mum had to take her nap in the living room.
She lazed in the master bedroom even when my mum got home and movesd around in the bedroom and even while my mum keep the clothes.
She cut her nails in the master bedroom.
So now I wonder who is the maid?
It's not that I want to keep thinking she is the MAID. But does she deserved any respect with whatever she does from beginning till now? She didn't even help at all. How we respect her as an individual? How do we respect her when she didn't show respect to us at all? And when she doesn't show any responsibility? And aren't she worried that we had anything lost and we would blame her?
I was so mad that I sneak somewhere and snapped a photo of her cutting her toenails. It's not very clear but I managed to snap it. As my mum wasn't home and I was mad, I mms that picture to my aunt. She kind of called immediately and asked me to get her to the phone and scolded her. I only hear, '... ... sorry mum... ... I am cutting my nails... ... on old newspaper... ... ok ok I'll go out... ...'
Frankly speaking, I was guilty as I caused her to get scolded. At the same time I am also worried as I wasn't sure how my aunt talk to her. Would she know I told my aunt as I am the only one at home? Would she bear grudges? Would she do anything to all of us? But if she continue to stay in the bedroom especially if she sleep there, I would snap another shot and send it to the agency. I will send. Trust me. Since my aunt had been scolding her and it doesn't help, I would just send to agency since I got proofs. Let the agency deal with her. Send her back by all means! It would release me from all the bad moods and worries...
Oh ya... Because of this maid, I suddenly remember the stickgal blog where she drew stick figures to show her feeling etc. I did some draft sketches of what all the maids did. Maybe during December I would do a better one and blog it. It would also act as a reminder for me (in future) or anyone that it would be best not to hire any maid. I am Anti-Maid now. I had enough. The %age of getting a nice one seemed so low.
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